Lately I’ve been trying to take the time to appreciate more. Chalk it up to SAD (so real) or a couple hectic weeks at work, but poor Bowl #2 has had to coax this grumpus out of a fair number of funks lately. Which is so silly, because there’s so many things I could be thankful for. Things as little as an open seat in a crowded subway on the way to work, or an unexpected (and unwarranted) snow day. Spending a quiet weekday night with B2 surfing YouTube for wedding songs, and finding the perfect track for our processional. Impromptu Saturday night hangs with good friends. Sleeping in ridiculously late the next morning, and having it be the kind where you wake up refreshed and not like your head’s stuffed full of cotton balls. Little big things.
So that’s where my mind’s at as we’re heading into Valentine’s Day this year. I know the holiday inspires about every feeling under the sun, but for me it seems like a little opportunity, in an otherwise dreary stretch of post-holiday weeks, to appreciate the person in my life who helps me get through the funks and refocus on the happy. B2 and I don’t have any grand plans for this Saturday (that I know of?) but at the very least, I’m hoping to make a good breakfast, hang out, avoid being the gloomy Gus I’ve been lately, and just appreciate. (And enjoy the long weekend! Yay, long weekend!)
Cupcake dish: The Fortynine Studio; plates: Akiko Graham via The-Commons; dish: Crate & Barrel; skillet: Lodge; cookie cutter: Wilton.
And now for the other thing I plan to get out of Valentine’s Day, as per usual: making anything and everything into gratuitous heart shapes. Enter mini heart dorayakis! Have you ever had dorayaki? They’re more or less Japanese pancake sandwiches — cute little portable pancake pockets filled with red bean paste. Dorayaki pancakes are a tad sweeter, denser and spongier than their fluffy American counterparts. The traditional version is round, and should be big enough that the edges are sealed and the middle is stuffed plump, but I couldn’t resist making this teenier Valentine’s version. There’s a touch of almond extract in mine, which is also unorthodox, but I thought it paired wonderfully with the red bean paste. (And I just love almond-flavored anything.)
One quick note on the cookie cutter shenanigans — you’re pretty much just using the cookie cutter as a “mold” that forms the pancake batter into a heart as it cooks on the griddle. But for me, getting the pancakes to work with the cookie cutter was a little tricky at first, both to get the batter to fill the cutter evenly and release from it after it was done. (The good news is that failures are still tasty. Even if you have to poke them out of the cookie cutter.) But the main tricks, I found, were just to thin the batter a bit more so that it’s easily pourable, and to be sure to grease the cutter edges well and let the cutter heat fully before pouring the batter in. If heart-shaped dorayaki seem too finicky, you can always just make the traditional round versions! Either way, I think these guys would work for a little Valentine’s Day breakfast in bed, a post-date dessert, or, you know, just a little Saturday-before-President’s-Day snack. You can find the recipe over at Verily Magazine this morning! Hope you’re all having lovely weeks!
Magda | My Little Expat Kitchen
I hear you about grabbing the opportunity to appreciate the person who brings your happy back on Val Day. My guy certainly does that and I’m glad to read yours does that too 🙂
I love these little pancakes, I’ve never heard of them before. They look cute all cut out into hearts.
Have a great Valentine’s day Cynthia!
tworedbowls
Aw I love hearing that! Yep, it’s a hard job being my cheerer-upper sometimes but he bears the burden manfully 😉 Thank you so much, Magda — I hope you have a lovely Valentine’s Day too! 🙂
Kristin @ Tasty Joy
These are just delightful! The person responsible for getting me out of my funks LOVES pancakes…so I might try something like this 🙂
tworedbowls
Ooh yay!!! Thanks so much, Kristin! 🙂
themoonblushbaker
Cynthia, your Contribution to Valentine’s day is my kind of eating. While I normally am a sucker chocolate, I can not do it for 3 meals of the day. No kidding, best use of a cookie cutter I have seen in a long time.
I hope you two have a lovely Saturday! Take some time to plan your special day and enjoy each others company 🙂
tworedbowls
Aw, thank you soso much, Belinda!! I know, I’m a sucker for chocolate too, but it’s nice to switch it up sometimes! (Only sometimes!) I hope you have a lovely Saturday too!!
aspoonfulofnature
This pictures are beautiful 🙂 well done <3
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tworedbowls
You are so kind, thank you!
Millie | Add A Little
These are too cute Cynthia – dorayaki brings me back to my childhood and watching doraemon!! Ahh the memories! I love the heart shapes too – perfect for Valentines day! Although I don’t have a valentine, these would be perfect to make for loved ones like my mum!
tworedbowls
Aw Doraemon!! I love it!! And I LOVE that you’d make pancakes for your mom! That makes me wish I was still home so I could do the same for mine. Thanks so much for the super sweet comment, Millie!
Betty | le Jus d'Orange
Ah Cynthia I am in love with this post!! Red bean is seriously the flavor of my childhood and perfect for valentines day. I myself just made red bean stuffed heart hand pies!! It’s a filling that seriously works with anything. I love love love dorayaki – it reminds me of when I was in Japan, and literally everything was light, fluffy, and super cute. Kawaii, right? 🙂
ps. gloomy gus. I love it. I’ve always used negative nancy but that’s such a mouthful!
tworedbowls
Omg what a coincidence!! Red bean heart-shaped everything! Thanks so much for the sweet words, Betty.
Amanda | What's Cooking
These look so good! Nothing makes a pancake better than red bean paste. I’ve been on a Korean kick lately, but I’ve been obsessing about your moon cakes too. Work has been hectic here too and it does help to take the time to appreciate the person who is there for you, even when you get sick of him too! (the winter blues are indiscriminate). Once that first day of sunshine hits, all will be well with the world! 🙂 Great post. Beautiful recipe and pics.
tworedbowls
Thank you so so much, Amanda!!! That first day of sunshine will be a goood good day for sure 🙂 Hope work slows down for you soon!
Lindsey
this time of year is so tough, the SAD element is totally legit and i find myself popping vitamin D like crazy (seriously helps!), and plopping my face into the sunshine to get as much light as i can. the down and out feeling can be such a bummer, but they’re also times where i feel like my body is trying to tell me something – take it slow, or just take a minute to assess it all. i wish i could pop through this screen and give you a big old hug! love these heart-shaped beauties, girl! and can’t wait for more festive things to come! hugs + sunshine, miss cynthia! xoxo
tworedbowls
Lindsey, your comments always make me smile!! Thank you for these words <3 I love that idea that moments like those are times to slow down and take a minute to reflect. So true. And oh my gosh, I am so taking a leaf out of your book re: that vitamin D!! So smart! Oodles of hugs right back at you, dear friend!! xoxoxo!
Abby
These are the cutest, Cynthia! And, as always, your photos are perfection. <3
tworedbowls
You are so sweet, Abby! Thank you!
Warm Vanilla Sugar
Too cute for Valentine’s Day!! These sound lovely!
Erika
Girl I love these!! Heart shaped pancake sandwiches sound like a great way to get over the SADs :).. it’s great to have that someone to bring you back to happy. Although after 13 years my husband would probably tell you that he brings me back from “crazy” Ha!
Sara @ Cake Over Steak
Well aren’t these the cutest! Your Saturday sounds lovely 🙂 I hope you guys have a wonderful weekend, full of relaxation and enjoying each other. Happy Valentine’s Day! xoxo
sundiegoeats
Had these at Mitsuwa Market for the the first time! I got the custard but I have my eye on the red bean + matcha one next time….
Valerie
I love that I’m always encountering new food stuffs on your site! I’m sure I pronounce Everything wrong in my head, but it’s still a tasty lesson! Your dorayaki are adorbs (and this is coming from one who is usually anti-Valentines Day + all things adorbs). This time of year turns me into a solitary, anxiety-ridden, sour puss; mayhaps I need to absorb life’s tiny pleasures, too. 🙂
Rebecca @ DisplacedHousewife
These looks delicious…I’ve never heard of them before. Love how you cut them into hearts. 🙂
jaime : the briny
i’m glad lindsey mentioned the vitamin D thing. i’ve noticed good things from using it, too.
i feel you on this winter thing and wanted to offer my two cents. don’t put pressure on yourself to feel anything but what you’re feeling. it sucks feeling down, even beyond the downness itself, because i think a lot of us tend to tell ourselves “we have no reason to be feeling this way”, so the down state becomes not okay, and there isn’t much space to be and breathe with all that pressure. i love your intent to appreciate. that seems like a pretty damn wonderful way to face the world and i think we could all use a little more of that. <3
Tessa | Salted Plains
Oh, the SAD thing is definitely for real and rough, especially when it seems like winter is never going to end. I am loving these little heart pancakes – they are so, so cute and cheery!! Made me smile. 🙂 Enjoy your long weekend, Cynthia!
Carole Poirot
I just had to find out more after seeing them on IG! 😉 I know what you mean about moods, the grey weather and forgetting all the small things we can be grateful for. Happens to me on a regular basis – maybe not surprising considering that London isn’t exactly known for its glorious sunshine. I do treasure the small moments of “wow, I’m so happy right now” more though when things have been a bit rough. Hope that makes sense xo
Maryna
They look really cool! At first I thought that the filling is a chocolate ganache, but red beans sound wonderful! Very unexpected))
Amaryllis @ thetastyother.com
Can’t decide what I like more- your recipes or your photos… This looks lovely- looking forward using red bean paste!
Alanna
Pancake sandwiches?? Say no more! This is such a beautiful, delicious, and sweet post, Cynthia. If you need a cure for your SAD, come stay with me in San Francisco. 🙂
alanafixfeastflair
Cynthia, I loved this post! Thanks for the reminder to be grateful for all the big little things. I’m gonna try to remember that the next time I’m a negative Nancy.
Regarding these mini heart dorayaki, ♡♡♡.
Sarah @ SnixyKitchen
This is exactly why I just want to stay and home with my husband and appreciate each other over a relaxing meal without all the fuss. I lovvvve doayaki – especially these red bean-filled heart ones! I hope your weekend is able to get you out of the gloom!
Kathryn
Ha, my boyfriend calls me a grumbleweed when I’m one of those moods. Like B2, he sometimes has to coax me out of those moods and the fact that he can + does makes me <3 him all the more. Happy valentines to you guys! These are so freakin' cute.
Liz @ Floating Kitchen
Oh pancake sandwiches sound like the best thing ever. Beautiful photos. And what a beautifully written post as well. I’m feeling the SAD lately too. I was basically stuck in the house for 5 days with the latest round of massive storms and was starting to get a look crazy! I’m hoping a change is in the air!
Nicola: Eat Dig Love
I love breakfast pancakes and will definitely be trying these tomorrow 🙂
kristan
SAD is so real! It hit me hard when we first moved to Seattle. I am glad that you have your sweet man to help coax you out of it. These pancake are too cute, I absolutely love them! Xo
Brooke Bass
I so can relate to how you were feeling, both in having what I call the “birthday blues” (post-holidays, post-birthday) and in feeling guilty for having those feelings at all when there’s so much to be appreciative of. We’re on the same wavelength, lady!
Thank goodness for loving partners, long weekends, and cute little tasty treats. Happy (almost) weekend!
June Burns
What a cool recipe! I’ve never heard of dorayaki, but they sound terrific. Hope you feel better soon 🙂
Sini | My Blue&White Kitchen
Winter blues I feel you. However, we had a couple of ridiculously sunny days this week and it felt out-of-this-world amazing. Suddenly my mind was hopeful and bright again. So cheers to more sun, more laughter, long weekends, love & friendship, and heart-shaped doayakis! xx
wallflourgirl
You adorable folks! Did you guys eat all these up and plan to make more for tomorrow? That’s one thing I love so much about what we do–we make stuff say, a week ahead of the holiday–and then we get to make it again for the actual occasion 🙂 win-win. They’re so mini and cute! Wishing you guys a happy Vday and unwinding sesh!
Kris
Cynthia, I can absolutely attest to having some blues over here, too. This time of year is always hard with the weather, not to mention crummy life stuff. You’re right about the little big stuff, though. I went to the library in my new hood a few days ago and discovered a great new section, I made pancakes for breakfast on a weekday, and I’m meeting my sister for a beer tonight (right down the street because we now live in the same neighbourhood!). Little big things. Right now it’s ok that I’m still surrounded by moving boxes, I can’t find my running shoes, and there is no where to put my collection of about 50 herbs and spices. I hope that the big big things turn a little brighter soon. 🙂
whiskandshout
Girl, SAD is soooo real. I’m obsessed with this post and I’m heading over to go check out the recipe now! As always, lovely photos.
Skye
This is such a lovely post, Cynthia – gorgeous photos and lovely writing, as ever! Enough to banish the winter blues!! Xx
Marissa
I so look forward to checking in and seeing that you’ve published a new post! Hopefully all these lovely comments praising your wonderful blog can be one more think to add to the things you’re grateful for. At least once a week (usually more!) I say out loud all the things that I’m thankful for. The awesome thing? Once I get started, it always amazes me just how long the list of things I’m thankful for is and it helps to make me feel so much better! Hope you’re feeling much better!
Renee Kemps
Tooooo adorable and can’t get enough of the photos, Cynthia!
Laura (Tutti Dolci)
What darling little pancakes, I adore the heart shape!
Nik@ABrownTable
Hope you’re feeling better, Cynthia! V-day is one hectic time of the year but those pancakes are super cute 🙂
Lotta
You are the best foodstyler!!! I love your photoes ! have a nice day!
Caitlin
These are so cute! I used to eat dorayaki if my grandma brought them from Japan. But I’ve never thought about making them, such a great idea.
Aybee
You have wonderful photos.
Greetings from Germany
Aybee